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2/6/2014

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Tonight I visited a restaurant and bid "Aloha" to a dear friend who returns to his home in Germany tomorrow.  The place was busy when I arrived .. every table occupied.  My friends waved me over the moment I entered  ...
and the rest of the evening was  magic.
When it happens, nothing compares.  It is unmistakable and the rarest of occasions in life.  That "conversation" we have below the surface and above the words .. based on primal knowledge inherent to our species .. a beautiful mix of intelligence, intuition, and basic instinct.  Verbalization becomes the "filler" .. unnecessary to the process when we  are communicating with more advanced sensory perception than our vocal chords could ever achieve.  Of course we speak and listen to recognize and honor one another, but it is the unspoken which reverberates and binds us on a uniquely higher level ...
this is connecting.

I typically shoot photos at these noteworthy events so there will be pictures to share with you .. not tonight .. one must reserve some experiences to the confines of privacy and the exhilaration of special memories .. held in common only by the participants themselves.  They, after all,  are the only beings who will ever recall the impact of the moment and give it future value. 

I happily share these photos of two restaurants I enjoyed many times in St. Cecile les Vigne  of the wonderful Vaucluse region  in France .. two places I photographed before friends, families, and lovers took their place around the tables to experience one another in their versions of our intricate human dance ..  floating their souls gently  and passionately toward intended recipients ..
bringing life to the tables and chairs ...

from Kauai to Paris ... and all places between

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Mom
2/6/2014 06:35:47 am

What a beautiful definition you have assigned to "Connecting".
So many avenues we have to connect with one another, yet the very idea of really making that connection is often scary for many-even to the degree of crippling the effort.
I guess eating in a nice restaurant eases the process. The two you have pictured for us are beautiful-thank you-. Many thanks for the blog!

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Bill link
2/6/2014 06:58:30 am

Mom .. Mahalo et Merci for reading me and taking the time to comment. Aloha!

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Heather in Arles link
2/6/2014 07:02:50 am

Yes, loving the magic of those moments when the words are not the point, just being together is. And I too definitely put away the camera at such times...they are too precious!

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Bill link
2/6/2014 07:16:05 am

Heather, thank you .. and anyone reading this, please take a moment to visit Heather's blog "Lost in Arles" for an incredibly heartwarming post about Kipling, the dog they rescued one year ago .. a MUST for any dog lovers out there! Mahalo et Merci for reading and commenting, Heather.

Heather's site: http://lostinarles.blogspot.com/2014/02/kiplings-first-anniversary.html?

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Karen Cafarella
2/7/2014 11:46:09 am

We sometimes feel we need to fill the quiet with words, but sometimes the quiet is all that is needed. Sitting with someone feeling their soul is better than any words exchanged.

Thank you Bill for reminding us how magical it can be.

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Bill link
2/7/2014 04:26:59 pm

Karen, PLUS, if we all decide "silence is golden" and we communicate telepathically .. I'll have a "golden excuse" for not perfecting other languages .. LOL :-) Thank you for commenting on this one .. always a pleasure to have the Arizona Italiana drop by! Mahalo et Merci

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Cynthia
2/9/2014 10:32:30 am

I love your words: "floating their souls gently.......". Having a special friend move away.....in miles/kilometers only......is a sad occasion. Family and friends are what we hold most dear in life and you expressed this so well in "Connecting". Thank you. Best wishes, Cynthia

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Bill link
2/9/2014 01:09:36 pm

Thank you for that very generous compliment, Cynthia .. I am honored. Mahalo et Merci

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