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Get over it!

2/10/2014

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HOTEL NOVOTEL - CHARLES de GAULLE AIRPORT
Leaving places I love is always difficult.  Leaving  people I love, even more difficult.  Becoming attached inherently invites melancholy, pain, and deep bouts of sadness when separation occurs .. voluntarily or involuntarily  there is angst.  This is the nature of life.   The closer we attach ourselves to one another, or that special place,  the more traumatic "bidding adieu" inevitably becomes .. equal parts pain for equal parts joy .. a very real portion of the human experience.   

Of course we all realize the pain of separation is momentary and actually serves the higher purpose of enhancing our next encounter .. but the immediate pain is real, and "until we meet again" is the heartbroken refrain of departure we should never suffer to experience.  This is the pain I felt while standing outside my hotel at Charles de Gaulle airport, on a beautiful summer evening, at the end of my most recent  visit to France. 

The photograph above is sadness and loneliness epitomized.  Void of any friend's face or any hope for a "great day" tomorrow .. that stark scene says it all.  Three o'clock in the morning and silent, except for the occasional roar of jet engines .. a not so subtle reminder that I fly away in just hours.

My thoughts are mine ... and I know you have your thoughts when this situation appears.  It smothers us  like a  black cloud and envelopes every memory of happiness, frivolity, and joy  cherished from the past weeks or months in this place we adore .. this place we cannot bear leaving in the early morning.  There seems to be no remedy .. nothing to save us from the overwhelming fog of despair.  We are mentally severed, like a small child being pulled away screaming from his favorite pastime before he is completely "filled" by the experience.

Oh my,  look what I've done!  I've managed to paint a negatively poignant picture, void of any hope or preview of positivity to come. 
"Get over it" !
You know damn well everything's  gonna' be all right.  You know the minute your plane lifts off  you are already thinking about all the good stuff on the other end of this flight .. you are already excited about planning the next flight .. you are already reliving the joys of the last flight .. you are already looking forward to new food on the other end, and  you are already looking forward to sharing  stories with people you love, about people you love,  and those special places where you love them.  So ...
"Get over it" !
Smile, dear reader, Smile .. You are an Ambassador.  You are carrying the hope of our world with you.  With every personal sadness at departure .. smile .. in the knowledge   your pain is a direct indication of the  love and good will you  created and left behind  with those people you adore .. and it will be there next time, better because of your actions this time.

I love you, Travelers.  You are the future of mankind .. spreading the truth of humanity far and wide .. cultivating the hearts of men, women, and children the world over.  You realize the importance and obligation of worldwide interaction .. and I'm certain deep within your souls is implanted the intense fire of hope.  I'm also certain anyone who questions the expenditure of your last resource on a plane ticket, or the decision to take off on a whim when your heart says "Go" is most assuredly going to hear a laughingly,   lovingly stated ... 
"Get over it" !

from Kauai to Paris ... and all places between

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Happy Trails et Bon Voyage,
Bill


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FROM MY ROOM AT SHERATON GATEWAY LAX - HEADED TO KAUAI FROM PARIS .. WITH A SMILE
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Debbie Ambrous link
2/10/2014 04:16:46 am

Hi Bill,
I always feel sad when I begin to see the end of a trip, when I start to think about what I need to collect together to leave instead of planning the next fun thing I will enjoy. You summed it up! It seems that my last night is usually in a nondescript small hotel room, surrounded by luggage, near the airport, just miserable enough to cause me to want to be home. Then I read, eat and plan my next trip. Leaving people dear to me is an entirely different story with much more pain. Speaking of pain, my website reply comment area is cured. So, what's next? Keep 'em coming, Bill.
Debbie Ambrous
www.AFrenchOpportunity.com

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Bill link
2/10/2014 04:27:56 am

Debbie, so glad to hear your comment section is fixed .. techie stuff can be such a distraction to the "writers art"! Isn't that the ever looming question .. what's next? I don't know .. but you can bet I'll "keep 'em coming" .. Thank you, Debbie, for your support! Mahalo et Merci

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Mom
2/10/2014 09:04:40 am

I remember the days when we were traveling because of the job at the end, how exciting it was, how meeting new people was such an adventure . It seems we were always ready for the next new place with different vistas and people. We only had the home we had just left or the one we were going to so there was no missing of home-it was always with us in one way or another.
Now, having made our last move, when I hear a plane fly over or the horn of the train approaching or leaving I feel so happy, so full of joy that I am not aboard any vehicle that would be taking me some place. Home is now stable, home is complete and home is where I want to be.
I guess it is all in the age. Your blog brings good memories of how it was and now I am so happy with how it IS!
Thank you, Billy, for another great piece of writing.

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Bill link
2/10/2014 09:44:20 am

Thank you Mom .. No one knows better than you and me what a gift from God it is that you are reading what I write. I am eternally grateful for that gift. Love, Your Son

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Cynthia
2/10/2014 12:13:50 pm

It sounds to me like you are about the luckiest person on earth! You have Paris and Kauai with dear friends awaiting you in both places. Each place is so perfect that it's hard to leave either one, I should imagine. You expressed it well. Best, Cynthia

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Bill link
2/10/2014 01:16:55 pm

Cynthia .. you've hit the nail on the head! I am, indeed, one of the luckiest people on earth .. one of the lucky 67,000 souls to inhabit beautiful Kauai and blessed to have a dear, dear friend in France, with a family who welcomes me with open arms. A blessing and a curse .. leaving the one for the other .. sweet and sour amplified beyone reason. Please allow me to smile and utilize a term applied to misbehavior in my youth, when my Hispanic Step Mother Rose (God Bless Her) in wonderful Pagosa Springs,Colorado would lightly reprimand me with ... "pobrecito" ... when I failed to show thankfulness. Yes, I'm a lucky, lucky man. Thank you for the reminder, Cynthia .. no "pobrecito" here. Mahalo et Merci

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Karen Cafarella
2/11/2014 07:49:38 am

So lucky for so many of us who have taken flight and visited places we dreamed about and some we used to call home. The joy of visiting again keeps me in high spirits and the love at the other end.

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Bill link
2/11/2014 08:14:05 am

Isn't that the truth, Karen! Just imagine, in the time it took a Conestoga Wagon to travel 10 miles .. we can be thousands of miles away ... enjoying exotic places and familiar faces! We are lucky on so many levels! Mahalo et Merci

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