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The Honorable Nakamura Family of Au'wae Road Kauai

12/7/2013

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HOW TO MAKE A RUSTY FENCE ATTRACTIVE .. KAUAI STYLE
Kauai's natural bounty is surpassed only by the generosity of Her wonderful people.  The giving nature inherent to the Kama'aina (pronounced caw-ma-eye-na) of Kauai is astounding.  Kama'aina are those of us who live on the island and is translated as "child of the land" in Wikipedia, but I prefer the richer sound "child of the earth".  Living here is a blessing that less than seventy thousand Kama'aina enjoy ... seventy thousand of the luckiest human beings on earth.  No matter what circumstance brought us here,  whether we are Kanaka Maoli (indigenous native Hawaiians) or transplants from another place ... we are all Kama'aina who bear the responsibility of honouring and respecting our aina (the earth),  living the virtues of Aloha, and sharing our good fortune with those around us.  Giving is not a random act on Kauai - it is the pulse of life embodied in Aloha and it occurs as regularly as breathing the fragrant tropical air.

A couple of days ago there was a soft knock at our door.   When I looked to see who was visiting, I was pleasantly surprised to find our neighbors' daughter.  Jean Nakamura was standing there with a five gallon plastic bucket full of macadamia nuts she  recently collected from beneath their trees .. no small task.  She not only gave us the nuts, but also brought along a husker/nut cracker for me to use and hand written instructions on everything from husking and cracking to roasting the nuts and how to dip them in melted chocolate in order to make one of Hawaii's greatest treats.  Today I walked out our door to discover a brown grocery bag full of star fruit with a nice note from Jean .. yet another unexpected treat.   I invite you to scroll down at the end of this post for photos of the macadamia nuts and the process of preparing them.

Jean and her brother Ken actually live in Honolulu.  They come to Kauai every weekend and clean and mow and maintain the land that was home to their youth.  I witnessed their Father caring for the land himself until his passing three years ago at the age of 96.   Yes, at 96 years of age this wonderful Japanese man pushed a mower around a property that is partially hilly, full of many plants and trees, and appears to be nearly 3 acres in size.  He had the physique of a 40 year old man and I was amazed to discover his age after he died.  Since the passing of Mr. Nakamura, I have learned from his wife and children that he and Mrs. Nakamura moved onto their property in 1959.  They lived there happily until his death .. Mrs. Nakamura has lived there alone since that time.  Interestingly, in June of 2011, when I was just getting started with this blog I wrote a poem entitled Love Wail that was inspired in part by Mr. & Mrs. Nakamura.  If you would like to read it, please CLICK.

Jean and her Brother Ken have been here frequently over the last couple of weeks.  They have been mowing, trimming, picking fruit, gathering macadamia nuts and still taking time to walk around and share with their neighbors.  They are preparing for a momentous event.   

Tomorrow, Mrs. Nakamura leaves her life of 54 years.  She leaves the beautiful home and grounds she and her husband created together.  She leaves the place where they raised and guided their two incredible children.  She leaves the aina they cared for ... the plants and trees they lovingly nurtured for all those years.  Tomorrow, Mrs. Nakamura is moving into an assisted living care facility. 

I cannot imagine the depth of feeling within the  Honorable Nakamura Family of Au'wae Road tonight, as I sit in my office sharing what little I know about them with you.  I do know they embody everything I find dear about this place .. Kauai.  The memory of this family is forever precious to me.  Their spirit has touched me deeply.  They have given.  Their essence will be forever present on the beautiful property they loved and shared with all of us.  They honor Kauai and  they are true Kama'aina .. in the highest sense of the word.
Mahalo Nui Loa Nakamura Family .. God be with you ...

from Kauai to Paris ... and all places between

Aloha,

Bill Facker

Looking Back - Click Here or on the link below for a blast from the past!

http://kauai-to-paris.com/2/post/2011/05/cleaning-paris.html

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KEN NAKAMURA WEED WHACKING .. LOOKS JUST LIKE HIS FATHER
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MACADAMIA NUTS FRESH FROM THE TREE AND READY TO HUSK
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VICIOUS BITCH PROTECTING ME WHILE I WORK
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DRYING .. WITH ALOHA FROM THE NAKAMURA FAMILY OF AU'WAE ROAD
18 Comments
Cynthia Lewis
12/7/2013 05:37:51 am

What a beautifully written tribute to the Nakamura family; it brought tears to my eyes. My best wishes go with Mrs. Nakamura as she leaves the land she loves so much. Mahalo Nui Loa.

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Bill link
12/7/2013 06:40:07 am

Thank you Cynthia. Maybe the French say it best ... c'est la vie. We have no control of the future, only what we leave from our actions of yesterday and what we create from our actions today. We are all blessed to be touched by people like the Nakamuras. I will miss their presence. Aloha et Au revoir

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Dad
12/7/2013 06:49:06 am

The Japanese are such hard workers, no more so than other Asian peoples but I always think of the Japanese as the really hard workers. In high school in Lander we had a Japanese family that lived out on the reservation and worked a farm there. Somehow they escaped being interred in a camp like a lot of other families. They had at least three male children the youngest of whom was in our class. His name is Sam Hirasawa. We still keep in touch with Sam and his wife and see them now and then. One of Sam's brothers still works the farm, which is probably sort of hard scrabble like a lot of other places on the reservation, and takes a lot of very hard work to make it pay off. Just wanted to share.

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Bill link
12/7/2013 08:59:01 am

Japanese Americans are among the most noble people in our country, Dad. Thank you for recognizing just one of their many contributions to our society. They have endured incredible hardship, not only to simply be called American, but to rise to the top echelons of our society as educators, statesmen and women, business professionals, and a never ending list of excellence in life endeavors. Yes, Japanese Americans are hard working folks .. and much more. I have deep admiration for their accomplishments as well as genuine fondness for their wisdom, gentleness, and giving nature. Mahalo, Dad, for your observation. That the Hirasawa Family continues to reside inside your consciousness is a great testament to their legacy, because I know what a hard worker you are and how much you value that trait in others. I always appreciate your comments, Dad .. Mahalo et Merci

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Pat Cargill
12/7/2013 07:56:08 am

Thank you for this lovely tribute to Mrs Nakamura and family. I hope she will find peace in this difficult transition. Our thoughts will be with her. I love your poem; I can hear her wail from here. I hope that our silent witness to the lives of others in some way permeates their shell of isolation. Lovingkindness surely has that power? Namasté,
Pat

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Bill link
12/7/2013 09:15:09 am

Pat, your comment "I hope she will find peace in this difficult transition." is perfect. Please know that I had a wonderful conversation with Mrs. Nakamura on her lanai the other day. She is totally at peace with her changing situation. She looks forward to visiting with friends at her new home and will enjoy the fact she no longer must maintain her house on Au'wae Road. I tell you, she is a beautiful and resilient human being who chooses to contemplate the positive in this change of life. Her Son & Daughter are my role models for facilitating her happy transition. What an incredible Family.

Pat, your spirit always shines through in your comments. I consider you and everyone else who takes a moment to share in the comment section as stellar individuals who, like the Nakamura's, find joy in sharing. Thank you, Pat, thank you very much. Aloha et Au revoir

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Pat
12/7/2013 02:47:04 pm

I am happy to hear Mrs Nakamura is at peace with her move. When I read your poem, I was struck by the multitude of acts of silent witnessing that are sent forth, lovingkindness beaming out to ones who will never consciously know of it. (I do tend to believe that on some level we DO get through to each other.) Your poem bore witness to the beautiful spirit of Mrs N; your sharing it brought your friends here into her circle. Isn't that wonderful! Traveling mercies, dear Mrs Nakamura.

Sally Silvia
12/7/2013 08:39:26 am

Very nice Billy. I can feel your heart in this piece.

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Bill link
12/7/2013 09:17:18 am

Thank you, Little Sister. One day maybe my heart will be as big and beautiful as yours .. I love you. Aloha

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Mom Heidi
12/7/2013 09:31:59 am

I have to admit to streaks on my cheeks. From tears shed as I read this piece. Tears for the Nakamura family-all of it-as the children undoubtedly suffer as they watch their Mom in transition and for Mrs Nakamura as she leaves her Spot, the tangible reality of her past fading as she faces a future that will be lacking the soft safety built with the love and companionship of her departed mate.
Your words speak from a deep understanding of our human condition. With compassion. Thank you, Billy.

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Bill link
12/7/2013 10:04:03 am

Thank you so much, Mom ... this is where "The Little Train That Could" has taken me. If I can facilitate people loving one another, the hours at my keyboard are always joyful. Your stamp of approval is invaluable to me. Love, Your Son

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Karen Cafarella
12/7/2013 11:33:18 am

I want to give Mrs. Nakamura a big hug! Her outlook is so inspiring. As we hold on to our possessions sometimes griping with hands so tight, we might remember it is the memories shared and our love to others that is worth this beautiful life.

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Bill link
12/7/2013 12:08:39 pm

Beautifully expressed, Karen, Beautifully expressed ! As I enjoy your comment and look back at the others, it occurs to me that YOU ROCK !!! Mahalo Nui et Merci Beaucoup for giving to my blog. Aloha et Au revoir

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Bill link
12/7/2013 12:12:04 pm

"YOU ROCK !!!" was intended for every one of you who takes the time to share with others in the comments section. You make this blog. Mahalo!

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Norman Aramaki
12/8/2013 06:38:00 pm

Mahalo, Bill

I'm glad and fortunate that I had the opportunity to meet you personally this past Saturday morning.

To all that have commented about my mother-in-law and Jean (her daughter) and Ken (her son), thank you. I was fortunate to have Jean's dad and mom surrender her to me in marriage 45 years ago. I have been blessed all these years being a part of this loving family.

After Bill left to return to his home we loaded mom's selected belongs onto 2 pickup trucks and drove her to the Regency at Puakea, a short distance from the town of Lihue. Upon entering her room at Puakea we were pleasantly surprised to see how spacious and immaculate it was. Mom was also thrilled at her new surroundings which includes a living room, kitchen area with all the necessary appliances, a large bedroom and separate bathroom. One of our son-in-laws commented that he didn't mind moving into a place like this. To which his wife, my younger daughter gave him a stare.

Mom feels very fortunate to be at Puakea as at least three of her former neighbors also reside there. In fact, one lives across the hall and another lives in an adjoining unit. While we were there helping her set up, both neighbors stopped by since they had learned she was moving in. They commented that they were waiting for her arrival and offered to have her join them for lunch.

Mom accepted their invitation and we accompanied them to the dining area. Mom was already into conversation with them so we excused ourselves and told her we would be back tomorrow.

We visited mom today and she commented that she had such a good night's rest that she woke up at 8:00 a.m. and missed her breakfast date with her two neighbors who offered to accompany her when it was meal time.

As Bill has commented - truly the island of Kauai is special and it's due to the ALOHA spirit of those living there, like the Nakamura's and so many others.

Again MAHALO Bill and all those who have commented.

Aloha!

Norman

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Bill link
12/9/2013 06:00:46 am

Norman, It was my pleasure to meet you. Mahalo for this wonderful news regarding Mrs. Nakamura. I picture her in her new life, with old friends, happily greeting every day. You are most welcome for the tribute to your wonderful In-Laws .. they, and this includes you, are most deserving. Aloha and continued Best Wishes!

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Daniel
12/9/2013 08:33:34 am

Beautiful Bill. The family would be honored

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Bill link
12/9/2013 08:55:43 am

Mahalo Brother .. and Mahalo for reading and commenting! Aloha

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